I am not “marriage material.”
I am not material at all.
I am not something to be measured, molded, or made palatable for a role someone else has defined.
I am a force.
A full being.
A sovereign woman with fire in her voice and grace in her step.
I do not exist to be chosen — I choose.
I do not perform worthiness — I am worthy, without audition or apology.
If love finds me, it will not be because I played small enough to fit into someone’s idea of a perfect partner.
It will be because someone saw my fullness and rose to meet it.
I will not be softened to fit someone’s mold.
I will not be domesticated into silence.
I am not here to be agreeable, ornamental, or manageable.
I am not a prize for endurance or a reward for good behavior.
I am not looking for someone to complete me.
I am already whole.
And partnership — if it is to be anything at all — must be the meeting of two whole beings, walking in truth, not trade.
So no — I am not marriage material.
I am soul material.
Legacy material.
Divine-alignment material.
If you’re looking for someone easy to explain, keep walking.
If you’re looking for a checklist, I’ll break your pencil.
But if you’re ready to build a kingdom, burn down illusion, and dance through the mystery —
you might just find me there, already waiting, but never waiting for you.
Because I was never made to be kept.
I was made to be witnessed.
— Charlotte